Saturday, August 10, 2013

Getting Settled in Manila

 
We went to the Area Office on Monday morning and met with the welfare manager and Franco Advincula, the PEF Supervisor.  In the afternoon we were taken to Adriatico Tower 1 in Manila and were met by the broker who arranged for our condo. We went up to the 17th floor to apartment "O." The first thing I noticed as I walked into the apartment was the great view we have of Manila Bay. We have three large windows along with a kitchen window that face the bay. We will get to see lots of sunsets high aloft in the tower. The main living area in the apartment is about 10' by 20' which includes our living room, dining area, and kitchen. It is small but cozy. The bedroom is about 8' by 10' and has a closet with a few drawers in it and another small area across the room to hang more clothes. The bathroom is tiny but has a large shower area. You have to close the door to the bathroom to get in the shower. 
 
Sunset on Manila Bay from our apartment
 
On Tuesday, we got a ride to our office in the MPIR (Manila Philippines Institute of Religion) with another missionary couple who work there.  The facility is only about 21/2 miles away but it sure seems a lot farther than that.  We met with the Mission President and his wife for about 20 minutes. 
They greeted us warmly and asked if we needed anything.  We said that we had a few other questions and pulled out our list and started to go through it.    At first they seemed concerned. I think that they thought we may already have a complaint list but our list was more about how we could help with the work. President Stucki seemed more than a little surprised and pleased by our questions. 
 
We took a cab to the Area Office on Wednesday morning and paid about twice as much for it as we should have.   Once we got to the office they took us to get our Philippine drivers license. The process wasn't too bad and it only took a little over an hour. We did have to pay some more money but in the end we received a drivers license that looks a lot like the one we have from Kansas.  Then we got our car.
 
Our supervisor Franco was pretty concerned about us driving and worried that we would get lost. He went through our map book and marked the pages and then made his own maps on his computer and walked us through it again. He told us so many details that it was impossible to remember them all but we felt confident that we could handle it.  We got in, started the car and headed off for our first driving adventure in the Philippines.  It wasn't really too bad. There was traffic and it was slow going but we only got lost once and then only for a minute or two.  Anna had a tough time following on the map but we did pretty well. I zipped in between lanes got honked at a few times but it actually seemed a little fun to me. A little challenge to spice up the day.
 
                                     
Another view of the bay from our apartment

 

On Thursday we went to the Area Office for Training. Franco presented info on Philippine culture and the PEF program and Joemil presented info on employment. It was pretty good and it was fun to be with the other missionaries most of whom had been with us in the MTC.

We also learned that because our car license plate ends in a #2 that we cannot drive on Mondays between the hours of 7:00-10:00 am and 3:00-7:00 pm making it pretty difficult to go anywhere. Some people just stay in and work from home that day and some go early and leave early, etc.

When we finished the training they took all of us to dinner in the Intramuros Area of Manila. This is the oldest part where the original Spanish Fort was. We walked around a little bit and saw a church built in the late 1500's and then went to dinner. The dinner was Filipino food followed by a folkloric dance show. It was all pretty good and pretty entertaining.

500 year old church
 


One of the odd things about Manila is the number of security guards. They seem to be everywhere and they are all armed. Most of them are just carrying side arms but some have rifles. They are in front of almost every store, at the door to our apartment building, in front of the fast food outlets including McDonalds and it seems like they are almost everywhere in areas that there may be something someone could want. I do not know what the crime rate is but I would think that armed guards outside the 7/11 would make you think at least twice about trying to rob it.
 
 
The Guards in front of our Tower

Friday was our first P-day since we arrived in Provo. We weren't really sure what to do. We decided to go for a walk along the bay. There is a bay walk and we thought that it would be nice. It was overcast and very humid not quite as pleasant as we had imagined. There were people camped along the area and others trying to sell you stuff, beggars and fisherman. We saw again the huge contrast between where we live and the fancy mall and how most of the rest of the people live. We only walked a few blocks and saw a woman sleeping on the side of the street with a baby laying on her stomach. It was pretty sad. A man driving a horse drawn cart tricked Anna into getting in to take her picture and then she wanted me to get in. I could see where this was going and didn't want to get in but Anna wanted me to. He took our picture and then started down the street. We were now going for a ride in a very small cart. He was giving us a tour and we went down to the end of the bay walk about 10 blocks and turned around and headed toward a very old church. We got out for more pictures and then decided not to get back in. When we asked how much we owed he said 1000 pesos which is a lot of money here. I said how about 200 and we agreed on 500 which was still a lot for a 15 minute ride but only about $13. I guess that it was cheap compared with NYC but not quite the same feeling. We are slowly learning what to do here. It is a different world for us.

In the horse drawn cart



 

Sunday, August 4, 2013

Our First Sunday

Today was our first Sunday in the Philippines. Elder and Sister Tenney picked us up at 7:30 am to take us to church with them to the Morong Branch. Morong is east of Quezon City. It was an hour drive from our hotel. We got up there with time to spare so Elder Tenney kept driving past the church to show us more of the town. We stopped by a rice field and saw several people planting rice. Along the way to and from church we were able to see lots of Jeepneys and tricycles. The tricycles are actually motorcycles with side cars that generally have a roof over them. We saw as many as four or five people on one of these tricycles. The Jeepneys are painted in very bright colors and usually have some theme for their jeepney. I saw one that had a picture of Christ on it. While we were driving we also saw lots of tin roofed shacks where many of the people live. It was an eye opening experience.
 
 
Rice Planting


 
Jeepney
 

Friday, August 2, 2013

Welcome to Manila!

Good Morning Manila! It is just after 6:00 am, not too surprising but I (Dale) am the only one up to see the sunrise this morning. It was beautiful and now I know which direction is east. It is an interesting experience to be among the first people in the world to greet the new day. It is Saturday morning here and only Friday night about 5:00 pm back in Kansas City. Just another reminder that we're not in Kansas anymore.
 
We left Provo on Thursday around 7:15 am and arrived in Manila around 9:30 pm on Friday, August 2nd.  We were all completely exhausted when we arrived at the hotel around 12:00 am. We were up for 25 hours straight. We fell asleep as our heads hit the pillow at the Holiday Inn Galleria Manila.
 
As I (Dale) sit here by myself this morning I can't help but wonder what the future will bring. I am glad to finally be here and I hope that we can make a difference in the lives of some of these people. We wanted to be able to help people and now we will certainly have the opportunity to do so. I hope we are up to it. I don't normally lack for self-confidence but I know that I will need the Lord's help in this. I have never done anything like this before. There is so much need here that it almost feels overwhelming. We can't help everyone but we can help some and we have to focus on what we can do.
 

Sunrise in Manila


 
                                                                      Anna in Manila
 

Friday, July 26, 2013

First Week in the Missionary Training Center

At our first meeting everyone introduced themselves and told where they were from and where they were going. It was amazing. There must have been 35-40 couples and 5-8 senior sisters and they were going everywhere. Some were going to China, Iceland, several countries in Africa, several countries in Central America, Independence MO, St. Louis, and about 6-8 were going to the Philippines. We were the only ones going to Manila.
 
Friday (26th) was our last day of "Preach My Gospel" Training.
 
This is what Dale wrote in his journal:
 
"I actually enjoyed it a lot more than I was expecting. It was a lot of role playing and I have done that a lot in my life in the many programs that I have attended. I have been in role plays and have even written role plays. I once led a team that developed a 2 week sales training course that was full of role plays. It is hard to get people to take role plays seriously and hard to put together role plays that actually seem real. The role plays this week actually seemed real and they made a difference for the people participating in them. I have thought some about the difference in the training programs and I have decided that the role plays in Preach My Gospel are divinely inspired and that the people take them seriously and that the Lord takes them seriously. What a difference this makes, You actually feel the spirit when you do role plays here and they seem real to you. It was a blessing to participate in this training and I can honestly say that I have never felt this way about any other training that I have ever received."
 
We will be training for five more days before we leave for Manila on August 1st.  This training will have to do with the Perpetual Education Fund program that we will be helping with in the Philippines.   


Here is Anna in front of the Missionary Training Center.

 

Sunday, July 21, 2013

Last Day in Kansas

Today is our last day in Kansas. It has finally come. Tomorrow morning at 6:00 am we leave for Provo and then to the Philippines. We had dinner with Heather and the girls and Derek.  Bruce was traveling on business out of town.  We then went to President Ross' home to be set apart. Derek, Heather, Sarah, Megan, Laura and Katie were there.   The girls were very reverent. I had been concerned about them for no reason. They behaved like 4 little angels. It was a great experience. Pres Ross blessed me to have the love, patience, and understanding that I would need in this calling. I thought it was very helpful for me. He blessed Anna to see the purpose in her calling right away and not to be fearful. 

Monday, July 15, 2013

Farewell Talks and Manila Apartment

Yesterday we gave our "non-farewell" talks at church.  Anna talked about service and Dale talked about being a successful missionary.  We didn't have as much time for speaking as expected, so we had to shorten our talks while we were giving them.  This is not unusual in the Olathe First Ward.  There were two young women youth speakers who both did a good job on their talks, then Anna spoke.  She was followed by a violin duet presented by two young women who played "I Am a Child of God."  It was great!  Dale was the concluding speaker.

 
 
We received some information about where we will be staying in Manila.  We will be living in a 38 story high-rise building about three blocks from the waterfront and only two blocks from the American Embassy.  We feel good about this location and we are especially pleased to see the air-conditioning units in the apartment.
 

 
 
We leave next Monday, July 22nd, to start our mission.


 


Monday, July 8, 2013

Family Vacation/Reunion in St. George

We had a great trip to St. George, Utah for our family vacation/reunion. It was especially nice because we knew that we would not be seeing everyone again until after we get back from our mission in 18 months. We enjoyed spending time with our four children, their three spouses, and our nine grandchildren. It was the first time that Mabel, Else, and Juniper, the triplets, were with us. They were born on December 24, 2012 and our whole family feels very blessed to have them. We also got to see most of Dale's family, including his mother,his brother and his wife, and his sister and her family. We rented a house with a swimming pool that turned out to be a great idea with temperatures reaching 112 degrees or more. We hiked in Zion National Park, Snow Canyon State Park, visited church historical sights, and had fun just being together.

On the way to St. George we were able to go through Salt Lake City, visit BYU in Provo, and Manti. While in Manti we attended the Mormon Miracle Pageant. We also visited Cove Fort, a former Way Station for pioneers traveling in Southern Utah. On our way home we, along with Derek and Megan, (our second oldest granddaughter from Bruce's family) hiked through Bryce Canyon, visited Arches National Park, and stopped at Casa Bonita in Denver as strongly requested by Megan.

We expect this will be our last vacation for quite a while.
 
Manti Utah Temple

David, Arianne, Juniper, Else, Mabel

Colin, Melissa, Adele, Chris
 

Bruce, Sarah, Heather, Megan, Katie,  Laura
 
Derek at Angels Landing, Zion National Park

Ron & Lois with the Triplets
(Dale's Brother)

Dale, Mom, Ron, & Cindy
(Dale's siblings)

Megan at Bryce Canyon

Derek, Dale, Anna, & Megan at Bryce Canyon